How to Use a Prostate Massager for First-Time Pleasure

Quick answer

Start with a small, beginner-friendly prostate massager, plenty of lube, and a relaxed mindset. Go slow, listen to your body, and stop if you feel pain.

Step-by-step guide

1. 1. Prepare your space and yourself: Choose a private, comfortable spot where you won't be interrupted. Empty your bladder and consider a gentle bowel movement beforehand. Wash your hands and your massager with warm water and mild soap. Relaxation is key – stress makes muscles tense, which can make insertion harder.
2. 2. Apply plenty of lubricant: Use a high-quality water-based lube. Apply it generously to the tip and shaft of the massager, as well as your anus. Silicone-based lube can also work, but don't use it with silicone toys unless confirmed safe. More lube is always better than less – reapply if you feel any friction.
3. 3. Insert slowly and gently: Lie on your back with knees bent, or on your side with top knee pulled up. Press the tip against your anus and gently push, using small circular motions. Never force it. Once past the sphincter, angle the tip toward your belly button to find the prostate. If you feel sharp pain, stop and try again later with more lube or a smaller toy.
4. 4. Experiment with movement and vibration: Once inserted, try gentle rocking or rotating motions. If your massager has a vibrating bullet, start on the lowest setting. Some people prefer no vibration at first. Focus on the sensations and breathe deeply. There's no right or wrong way – explore what feels good for you.
5. 5. Clean up and care: After use, wash the massager with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Remove the vibrating bullet (if applicable) and clean it separately. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Proper cleaning prevents bacteria buildup and extends the life of your toy.

Products mentioned

• Rev-Pro Vibrating Prostate Massager with Cock Ring: Beginner-friendly prostate massager with cock ring. Expertly tapered tip for satisfying P-spot targeting. Features a textured perineum stimulator for dual pleasure. The tapered tip and slim design make this a great entry-level choice, and the cock ring adds stability during use.

  

• Rev-Pro Vibrating Prostate Massager: The expertly shaped shaft enhances penetration pleasure with its amazing multi-ridged design powered by the included vibrating bullet. The winged base offers a textured perineum stimulator. The multi-ridged shaft provides targeted stimulation, and you can remove the vibrating bullet to start without vibration.